Psychosexual Coaching

Are you looking for a way to move beyond shame or fear around your sexuality, and find self-acceptance and erotic empowerment?

Are you searching for safe and consensual ways to give voice to your sexual desires?

Are you wondering how to chart a course beyond binary gender models or “vanilla” sex?

Are you longing to reconnect with your beloved(s), and enter into a new chapter of intimacy together?

Are you ready to discover, embrace, and celebrate your full creative erotic potential?

If any of the above ring true for you, and you are looking for a safe and welcoming space from which to address the difficult questions about love, sex, intimacy, and/or gender, psychosexual coaching may be for you.

I’m Rowan, the founder of Making Love with God, and in my capacity as a psychosexual coach, I take pleasure in empowering my clients to:

  • Clarify and communicate their boundaries, their needs, and their desires
  • Develop strategies for radical self-acceptance and ethical self-care
  • Discover new possibilities for intimacy and sex, and navigate the stages of love and life in creative and pleasure-giving ways
  • Address issues around identity – whether in terms of sexuality or gender – and find safe and fulfilling ways to embody and express themselves
  • And to reconnect – to their own sexual and creative energy, to partners and loved ones, and, if they so wish, to an experience of unconditional and sex-positive divine love

My work takes the form of talk therapy, and uses breath and visualisation techniques to promote embodiment, integration, pleasure expansion, and peace. I bring warmth, humour, and presence to my sessions, and my unique psychosexual coaching is influenced by years of experience in conscious sexuality, spiritual counselling, and the gifts of the breath.

Ultimately, what I do comes down to helping you find the permission to be yourself – ecstatically.

Coaching sessions can be conducted online, or in person in Brighton, or in Oxford on a quarterly basis. I operate on a busy schedule, and coach a limited number of people at a time, so I encourage you to begin the booking process now if you think I might be the coach for you.

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I recommend a minimum of three coaching sessions to reconnect you with your body, your desire, and your truth, and to help you to begin to express and explore yourself and your sexuality accordingly. Some clients choose to work with me on a longer term basis, unraveling outdated patterns, addressing old wounds, and integrating permission and pleasure into every facet of their lives. Ultimately, the journey of erotic discovery is a lifelong one, and one it is my delight to support you on for as long as feels appropriate to us both.

All genders, orientations, bodies, backgrounds, and beliefs are welcome.

Previous Clients Say…

Rowan – Words are not going to be enough to express the gratitude I feel for the help you have given me during my counseling sessions with you.

Your therapeutic approach has been the first facilitation I have experienced that has helped me implement concrete external improvements in my life – as well as what is the normally expected internal psychological development. Your insightful witnessing and holistic technique has been like a breath of fresh air – literally – that has allowed me to straighten the knotted tangles of thoughts that have held me back. The way you have helped me work with a heightened body consciousness has been amazing and allowed me to clear out old locked-in, and disruptive, thought patterns. I would recommend your therapeutic work to anyone. - C, Coaching Client
2016-10-28T11:07:45+00:00
Rowan – Words are not going to be enough to express the gratitude I feel for the help you have given me during my counseling sessions with you. Your therapeutic approach has been the first facilitation I have experienced that has helped me implement concrete external improvements in my life – as well as what is the normally expected internal psychological development. Your insightful witnessing and holistic technique has been like a breath of fresh air – literally – that has allowed me to straighten the knotted tangles of thoughts that have held me back. The way you have helped me work with a heightened body consciousness has been amazing and allowed me to clear out old locked-in, and disruptive, thought patterns. I would recommend your therapeutic work to anyone. - C, Coaching Client

Dear Rowan - You have already helped me in ways I could never have imagined.

I’ve experienced different therapies in the past and they have always focused on fixing me, rather than allowing me to listen to myself and begin to see who I truly am. You aren’t just with me during our sessions, but send me away with something to work on – whether that’s reading a book, making art, going on a journey, or performing a ritual. I haven’t been given the space to create since I was a child. Sometimes our sessions challenge me, because of the rawness that comes with discovering your Self, but I am already witnessing the shift in my perception of the world. Or perhaps, simply remembering a world I’ve experienced before.

Thank you. I am so looking forward to delving deeper within whilst learning to make more connections, more authentic connections, with others, with The Other. - O, Coaching Client
2016-10-28T11:12:26+00:00
Dear Rowan - You have already helped me in ways I could never have imagined. I’ve experienced different therapies in the past and they have always focused on fixing me, rather than allowing me to listen to myself and begin to see who I truly am. You aren’t just with me during our sessions, but send me away with something to work on – whether that’s reading a book, making art, going on a journey, or performing a ritual. I haven’t been given the space to create since I was a child. Sometimes our sessions challenge me, because of the rawness that comes with discovering your Self, but I am already witnessing the shift in my perception of the world. Or perhaps, simply remembering a world I’ve experienced before. Thank you. I am so looking forward to delving deeper within whilst learning to make more connections, more authentic connections, with others, with The Other. - O, Coaching Client

Dear Rowan - Thank you so much for your incredible focus, presence, love, support and listening over the last couple of months.

I have thoroughly enjoyed our sessions. It seems a little weird to say “enjoyed” through the sobbing, processing, expressing and deep heartfelt moving through some very painful stuff. Yet, that is the word I would use to describe this wonderfully gentle yet powerful holding of the session that you so seamlessly offer. You have the ability to marry deep wisdom and intuition with practical grounding help and inspirations to help me move through and challenge myself in my life, as I ease into a more flowing way of experiencing, expressing and relating. I feel like I have been hugged with love into myself. - E, Coaching Client
2016-10-28T11:10:32+00:00
Dear Rowan - Thank you so much for your incredible focus, presence, love, support and listening over the last couple of months. I have thoroughly enjoyed our sessions. It seems a little weird to say “enjoyed” through the sobbing, processing, expressing and deep heartfelt moving through some very painful stuff. Yet, that is the word I would use to describe this wonderfully gentle yet powerful holding of the session that you so seamlessly offer. You have the ability to marry deep wisdom and intuition with practical grounding help and inspirations to help me move through and challenge myself in my life, as I ease into a more flowing way of experiencing, expressing and relating. I feel like I have been hugged with love into myself. - E, Coaching Client