Psychosexual Coaching

Are you an aspiring sex-magician struggling to connect to your erotic and creative potential?

Have you been deep diving in the seven seas of shame, and are you wondering how to swim your way to a more empowered shore?

Have you and your beloved(s) lost that loving feeling, and are you longing for its return?

Are you searching for safe and consensual ways to give voice to a host of dreams and desires bubbling within you?

Are you wondering how to chart a course beyond binary gender models or “vanilla” sex?


If any of the above ring true for you, and you’re looking for a safe harbour from which to address the difficult questions about love, sex, intimacy, and gender – welcome!

In my capacity as a psychosexual coach, I take great pleasure in empowering my clients to:

  • Clarify and express their boundaries, their feelings, their needs, and their desires
  • Give themselves permission to be true to their own felt identity – whether in terms of gender, orientation, or sexual preference – and find safe and fulfilling ways to embody and express that identity
  • And, above all, to reconnect, to their own sexual and creative energy, to their beloved, and/or to an experience of divine love

My work takes the form of talk therapy, and is intuitively woven with breath and visualisation techniques to promote embodiment, awareness, integration, self-acceptance, and peace. I bring intelligence, humour, and compassionate presence to my sessions, and my work is influenced by years of experience in conscious intimacy, sacred sexuality, and the gifts of the breath.

Ultimately, what I do comes down to helping you find the permission to be yourself – ecstatically.

Coaching sessions can be conducted via Skype, or in person in Bristol or Oxford. I operate on a busy schedule, and coach a limited number of people at a time, so I recommend beginning the booking process now if you think I might be the coach for you.

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I recommend a minimum of three coaching sessions to reconnect you with your body, your desire, and your truth, and to help you to begin to express and explore yourself and your sexuality accordingly. Some clients choose to work with me on a longer term basis, unraveling outdated patterns, addressing old wounds, and integrating permission and pleasure into every facet of their lives. Ultimately, the journey of erotic discovery is a lifelong one, and one it is my delight to support you on for as long as feels appropriate to us both.

All genders, orientations, bodies, backgrounds, and beliefs are welcome.


“Rowan – Words are not going to be enough to express the gratitude I feel for
the help you have given me during my counselling sessions with you.

Your therapeutic approach has been the first facilitation I have
experienced that has helped me implement concrete external
improvements in my life – as well as what is the normally expected
internal psychological development. Your insightful witnessing and
holistic technique has been like a breath of fresh air – literally –
that has allowed me to straighten the knotted tangles of thoughts that
have held me back. The way you have helped me work with a heightened
body consciousness has been amazing and allowed me to clear out old
locked-in, and disruptive, thought patterns.

Thank you so very much for all your help and insight.

I would recommend your therapeutic work to anyone.”

C, Newbury