Generated by All in One SEO v4.9.9, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # Making Love with God The Art of Sex Magic ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Blog](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/writing/blog/) - [Fire Magic on Film](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/fire-magic-on-film/) - Sometime in the midst of last year's busy summer festival season, my beloved and I spent a day with some nice people from 4oD, filming a segment for the somewhat questionably entitled Bizarre Fetish Handbook. That segment has recently gone live. The majority of what we filmed has necessarily been cut out of the 4.5 - [The Side Effects of Conscious Sex](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/the-side-effects-of-conscious-sex/) - In last month’s post, I attempted to create a working definition for Conscious Sexuality. This is how far I got: To engage in Conscious Sex is to engage and commit your whole self to the erotic experience – to endeavour to become as fully present as you can to what is moving in you in - [Love Spells for Difficult Conversations - Part II](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/love-spells-for-difficult-conversations-ii/) - How elements of spell craft can support us in having more generative and connective conversations about challenging topics. - [Love Spells for Difficult Conversations](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/love-spells-for-difficult-conversations/) - The first in a series of two posts offering sex-magical tools and tips for tough and tender conversations. - [Sex Magic for slowing down](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/sex-magic-for-slowing-down/) - It’s that time again. That moment when I feel called to offer Sex Magic for our Times out into the world, and I wait to see if this is something the world – or at least, the tiny corner of it that I am interwoven with – would like to receive right now. This piece - [Self-Regulation for Radical Action](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/self-regulation-for-radical-action/) - As I was reflecting with a client this week, after they shared some of their anger and sadness in the face of events unfolding in Gaza, there is so much, so much, so much to grieve right now. Many of us are outside our window of tolerance. Others are turning away for fear of being - [Pleasuring the Change You Want to See in the World](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/pleasuring-the-change-you-want-to-see-in-the-world/) - At the end of our most recent Koinonia event, I shared that, for me, pleasure and revolution dance hand in hand. In that sense, I’m a drop in a river that has been flowing for longer than we can know, a river running through Aristophanes’ play Lysistrata, first performed in 411 BC, which tells tall - [A Daily Dose of Pleasure for February](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/a-daily-dose-of-pleasure-for-february/) - Let’s talk about January. Based on my conversations with clients and loved ones, it seems that for a lot of us in this rainy corner of the northern hemisphere it has been a month of pervasive tiredness, of foggy minds and landscapes, of lingering colds and sudden losses. Good riddance, right? Now let’s talk about - [Creating Safe and Sacred Space for Intimate Conversations](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/creating-safe-and-sacred-space-for-intimate-conversations/) - One of the most common topics I explore with my clients in psychosexual coaching sessions is communication – including the question of how to do it. “It’s all very well identifying this boundary or need, but how can I communicate it to my partner(s)?” “How do I tell someone I’m not interested in a romantic - [Mapping the Inner Landscape – some creative prompts](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/mapping-the-inner-landscape/) - I have always loved thresholds, and those liminal moments that precede the opening of a new chapter, or the beginning of a new year. One of life’s planners, in recent years I have embraced the time betwixt the midwinter festivities and the new year as a time for reflecting on what has been, dreaming what - [Self-Acceptance is not a Solo Activity](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/self-acceptance-is-not-a-solo-activity/) - ‘Self-Acceptance is not a Solo Activity’ is a sentence that first found its way into my notes for a virtual workshop entitled Kink and Spirituality. The session was one I had the pleasure and privilege of running with Caritia for Karada House. I was making a point about BDSM and self-actualisation – about the way - [Sex Magic for Making Change](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/sex-magic-for-making-change/) - Change. I’m used to being surrounded by folks who want it in one form or another – from my coaching clients, to my close people who are creatives, activists, and/or magicians. But in this last year, that clarion call for change seems to have become universal, even as the changes each of us desire can - [Making Love with Grief](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/making-love-with-grief/) - “If I could only teach one thing for the rest of my life, this would be it.” These were Barbara Carrellas’s words about her favourite ecstatic breathing technique when I was assisting her in New York earlier this year. Not surprisingly, they got me wondering what the one thing I would choose to teach might - [Ecstasy Really Is Necessary](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/ecstasy-really-is-necessary/) - I recently had the pleasure of attending Queerope, a 5-day virtual rope conference for LGBTQIA+ folks, hosted by the amazing team at Karada House. The event was exquisitely held, and I could spend a whole post detailing what an extraordinary feat the team managed to pull off, over several platforms and five days, with participants - [Tantra for Geeks](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/tantra-for-geeks/) - A couple of weeks ago, I found myself enthusing with a regular client over a new analogy we had come up with for self care – one that utilised mathematical parabola to demonstrate the necessity of rest and reflection for expansion and well-being. This got me thinking again on a topic that has been floating - [Practices for when You're on Your Knees](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/practices-for-when-youre-on-your-knees/) - Earlier this year, I found myself reflecting, personally and in my coaching practice, on the following question: What are the practices we can access when we’re on our knees? By which I mean, what acts of self-care are available to us when the shit is hitting the fan of our life, or we ourselves are - [Self Love Spells for the Solstice](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/self-love-spells-for-the-solstice/) - Dear Beloved*, What a year we have both had. I hold you in my thoughts with much tenderness as the days grow shorter. During our last phone call, I heard you express a desire to access your inner witch, to find that wise and rooted inner voice and follow where it might lead you. As - [Earth, Sex, Magic - an invitation into the Family of Things](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/earth-sex-magic-an-invitation-into-the-family-of-things/) - Dear Beloved*, At the end of September, I’ll be running a day workshop called Earth, Sex, Magic. As you can probably guess, it is an invitation into relationship with what our shared favourite poet Mary Oliver calls “the family of things”. I’ve been wondering how to articulate to my community why it feels vital to - [On Letting Go](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/on-letting-go/) - Disclaimer dear reader: letting go is neither my favourite thing, nor my forte. But lately I’ve been hearing whispers that letting go might be just the thing for me right now in a few areas of my life. And when I go out walking, I cannot help but catch my breath at just how beautiful - [Discernment and the path to Erotic Empowerment](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/discernment-and-the-path-to-erotic-empowerment/) - Last year I promised to write a post about practising discernment. This is a subject that I frequently find myself delving into with clients - particularly when they are embarking on new chapters in their erotic lives. A vital part of personal erotic empowerment is the ability to sense – to discern – which of - [Things I Can't Explain](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/things-i-cant-explain/) - I can’t explain to you how sex will be if you do the work. I can’t explain the way that, when you make breath a practice, a sensation that was once as though at a distance will consume your whole being. I can’t explain how, by following the breath into the places in yourself that - [Permission to enter the Spectrum of Possibilities](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/permission-to-enter-the-spectrum-of-possibilities/) - As a psychosexual coach, I treasure those moments when I’m approached by clients who are standing on a threshold, and looking for someone to cheer them on as they step over it. While I’ve accompanied clients over thresholds ranging from career changes to bereavement, inevitably, the thresholds I’m often approached for are those that fall - [Diversity Practices for Deepening Intimacy](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/diversity-practices-for-deepening-intimacy/) - A couple of weeks ago, I did something which, at the time, felt enormously risky. I lead an experiential session on diversity for the Interfaith Foundation that ordained me. The reason doing so felt as acutely vulnerable as it did goes something like this: Diversity is an arena where, especially as a white person raised - [Ritualising Intimacy - or, What Does Magic Have to do with Sex Anyway?](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/ritualising-intimacy-or-what-does-magic-have-to-do-with-sex-anyway/) - Twice this year I have had the exquisite pleasure of training a group of sexuality practitioners in the art of Ritual Fireplay. After the most recent course in Stockholm, a day immersed in ritual, bathed in firelight, and interspersed with sweet sounds of sensation and release, I’ve been thinking a lot about magic. Specifically, why - [The G-Word Revisited](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/the-g-word-revisited/) - The evening is well underway when myself and a friend sit ourselves down for a catch up in the Earth quarter. It’s a Koinonia event, based as usual on the four elements. Next door, the Water space is a quiet haven of cuddling couples and massage swaps; upstairs, the sound of the base in Air - [An Ode to Perseverance](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/an-ode-to-perseverance/) - Perseverance. This is the subject of my love letter to you this month dear hearts. Specifically, perseverance in relationship. What follows is an ode to those of you pushing through the undergrowth of resentment and the quick sands of fear, in dogged determination to get back to the heartland of connection. A serenade to those - [Why Relate: Some Thoughts on the Vital Necessity of Cultivating our Capacity to Connect](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/whats-relationship-got-to-do-with-it/) - Reconnection is one of the strongest driving forces behind the work that is Making Love with God. That innate and undeniable longing to reconnect - to ourselves, to each other, and perhaps to something more than us. The call, in other words, to relationship. Relationship being a very particular thing to dedicate one’s life to, - [A Definition of Conscious Sex](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/a-definition-of-conscious-sex/) - Recently, I found myself sitting in on a conversation about sex and spirituality, noticing I was feeling increasingly uncomfortable. As it was the end of a long day, I didn't pin down what was making me so restless until much later, when I was back in my own space. It was then I realised what - [Air, Water, Fire, Earth](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/air-water-fire-earth/) - When we first began, it seemed appropriate that an event based on the four elements should begin with their invocation. Or at least, it did to me, with my pagan witchy roots, and the same could be said of the core members of the team who were helping me make this new vision manifest. Two - [Sex in a Time of Grief](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/sex-in-a-time-of-grief/) - Yesterday, my beloved and I had some long-overdue quality time together. In the late afternoon, as we made headway with two delightfully obscene slices of cake in the Rainbow’s End, I found myself apologising for how low I have been over the last couple of days, and the impact that has had on our togetherness. - [Safe Sex, Sacred Sex](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/safe-sex-sacred-sex/) - A few weeks ago, I stood in a well-fitted dungeon, catching my breath in wonder as the fourth chapter of Koinonia took off before my eyes, like champagne from a well-shaken bottle. The crowd was the largest we’ve had the pleasure of welcoming, and the mischievous force of springtime was evidently strong in this one; - [Being Seen](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/being-seen/) - It was my first day of seminary. The group moved around the room, weaving betwixt and between itself. When two of us made eye contact, we would pause, stand before one another, and one of us would say: “I am here to be seen.” “I see you”, came the response. I was hooked. Fast forward, - [Going Deeper - Reflections on Rekindling Intimacy](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/going-deeper-reflections-on-rekindling-intimacy/) - I spent the weekend before last at seminary for my Interfaith Ministry training. There was a lot to love about the two days (as well as plenty to feel challenged by!), including one particular structure we did on the subject of intimacy. The facilitator, inspired by Gestalt, was talking about intimacy as a cycle; as - [Handing it Over - the Art of Surrender](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/handing-it-over-the-art-of-surrender/) - During a recent weekend intensive, I was talking a group of particularly intrepid explorers through the fundamental elements of magical ritual. On the morning in question, I was focusing on the final piece of the puzzle, the aspect of surrender, and emphasising the importance of closing a ritual by handing the desire or intention for - [Sex, Magic, and the Importance of Being Funny - an interview with Barbara Carrellas](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/an-interview-with-barbara-carrellas/) - [This interview was originally published on December the 1st 2013] Barbara Carrellas. Sex educator, author, theatre artist, and fire-eating extraordinaire. The irreverent inspiration for much of my own work and writing in sacred sexuality - and the all round gateway drug into a bunch of my favourite things about life. What better way to begin - [A Dream Coming True](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/a-dream-coming-true/) - I spent the better part of my childhood clambering over the rocky, gorse-kissed landscape of a tiny Greek island called Kythera. Like so many of those islands, it had succumbed to mass migration early in the 20th century; the population when I was a child stood at around 3000 souls, and only half of that - [Self Pleasure, Self Heal - Reclaiming the Magic of Masturbation](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/self-pleasure-self-heal-reclaiming-the-magic-of-masturbation/) - Conscious self-pleasuring is something I find myself recommending to clients and participants on a regular basis. With this post, I hope to create a resource on the subject, exploring why I believe it’s a vital part of the individual sexual journey, what gifts it holds for intimacy, and how one might go about it. So - [Energy and Eros: A crash course in tantric breathing, cosmic sex, and genital shapeshifting](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/energy-sex/) - I was recently scouring the web in search of resources on the subject of energetic genitals for a client, and was rather disappointed to find good ol’ Google drawing a blank. In this post, I intend to take that blank, and run with it as the perfect excuse to lavish some wordy attention on one - [Unconditional Positive Regard](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/unconditional-positive-regard-in-sex-coaching/) - I have a client I haven’t seen in a while today. The space is prepped, the kettle is on, and I’m chatting to God. “Anything I need to know? What do they need from me today?” I ask the question, and then simply listen. “Be the oasis. Be warm, be loving. Remember – Unconditional Positive - [The G-word](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/the-g-word/) - God. I know that, for many of you, that single syllable inevitably evokes an intense and complex emotional response, likely including feelings such as shame, doubt, resistance, and even anger and fear. There you were, happily googling away in search of opportunities for liberated and sensual self-expression and exploration, and then up pops that damn ## Pages - [Welcome](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/) - The Art of Sex Magic - [Koinonia](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/events/koinonia/) - The word Koinonia has a threefold meaning - Intimacy, Community, and Communion - defining the threefold purpose of Koinonia events. These elemental ritual play spaces were created to move beyond sex positive spaces into Person Positive spaces, welcoming not only the sensual, but also the intellectual, emotional, physical, and spiritual facets of the human experience. - [The Team](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/about/the-team/) - Rev Rowan Bombadil (they/them) is a workshop facilitator, psychosexual coach, and interfaith minister, dedicated to bridging the binaries between sex and spirit, and the founder of Making Love with God. Rowan champions love in all its forms. 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This intensive weekend workshop opens a safer space for intimate encounters with the facets of ourselves our culture tends to de-prioritise or dismiss – our emotional, embodied, and erotic selves – and invites you to - [The Work](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/about/the-work/) - This work is founded on the understanding that sex is sacred, and that the sacred is sensual. You are invited to extend that sense of sacredness, of curiosity and respect, to your body and your genitals, your feelings and desires, your sexual orientation and your gender experience. 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Their work - [Collaborations](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/workshops/collaborations/) - Love, Kink & Service: The Dynamics of Power with Mollena Lee Williams-Haas Saturday 30th of June to Sunday 1st of July, London Curious about “Power Exchange” relationships? Looking to broaden your horizons in kinky sex with a dominant and submissive twist? Longing to strengthen and deepen an existing dynamic? Join Mollena and the Making Love - [Art](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/erotic-art/) - Save Save Save Save Save Save Save Save - [Ceremony & Celebration](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/uk-celebrant/) - A Ceremony is a safe and sacred container within which to step joyously over life's thresholds. When we hold a Ceremony, we carve out space and time to pause, and be truly present, with the moments that define the course of our lives - whether they are moments of celebration, transition, or even grief - - [Booking your Lovecraft Study Package](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/booking-your-couples-course/) - To reserve your Lovecraft package, begin by filling out the form below. We will then contact you to confirm your booking and let you know how to pay. Please allow at least a week between the date on which you fill out the form, and the date on which you would like to begin the - [In Person](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/sex-coaching/sex-and-relationship-coach-bristol-oxford/) - Are you an aspiring sex-magician struggling to connect to your erotic and creative potential? Have you been deep diving in the seven seas of shame, and are you wondering how to swim your way to a more empowered shore? Have you and your beloved(s) lost that loving feeling, and are you longing for its return? - [Firebranding](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/fire-magic/firebranding/) - Branding combines the tradition behind rites of passage, the intense sensation of Fireplay, and the effects of body-art, to create semi-permanent or permanent patterns on the skin. You might choose to include branding as part of your Fireplay ritual, or indeed to focus your ritual on receiving a brand, in order to mark a transition - [Book Now](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/sex-coaching/book-a-sex-coaching-session/) - Psychosexual Coaching sessions typically last an hour. We begin with some simple guided breathing to help you turn your attention away from what is happening in your daily life, and onto what is happening in you. A dialogue can then unfold, which may take us deeper into verbal enquiry, and/or into an embodied enquiry - - [Workshops & Events](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/workshops/) - Welcome to our Workshops and Events section. Come on in, and discover safe, sacred, and inclusive spaces that bridge the divides between sex and spirit, creativity and magic, ritual and pleasure. Our regular offerings take the form of a series of intensive weekend workshops, initiating the seeker into the mysteries of Making Love with God, ## Events - [Koinonia – Intimacy, Community, Communion](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/events/event/koinonia-intimacy-community-communion-4/) - The ritual revels of Koinonia return on Sunday the 30th of November to feed the flames of eros, connection, and community. - [Koinonia - Intimacy, Community, Communion](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/events/event/koinonia-intimacy-community-communion-3/) - The ritual revels of Koinonia return on Saturday the 17th of May to entice you into new adventures in eros and ecstasy. Our tenderly held realm of debauchery and delight will once again be shaped around the four elements, as follows: – Air is the dance floor, encouraging ecstatic embodiment throughout the evening – Water - [Sex Magic for our Times](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/events/event/sex-magic-for-our-times/) - Sex Magic for our Times is a journey in ritual, pleasure, staying with the trouble, and resourcing from the erotic, unfolding over five Friday evenings in November 2024. For five three-hour virtual meetings, we will gather together for the dual purpose of: getting present with ourselves, each other, and all that is moving within and - [Psychosexual Solidarity Clinic](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/events/event/sex-coach-lgbtq-solidarity-clinic-4/) - This is a monthly clinic for folks on the LGBTQ+ spectrum who are holding questions or facing challenges around love, relationships, sex, and/or gender, and who feel drawn to work with me, but cannot afford to pay for regular sessions. These sessions can be conducted over Zoom or by phone. They last for 50 minutes, - [Koinonia - Intimacy, Community, Communion](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/events/event/koinonia-intimacy-community-communion-2/) - The ritual revels of Koinonia open their loving arms once more on the first Saturday in July, welcoming you to the ultimate summer love-in! *Please read through the practicalities and protocols for this event below, and make sure you are willing to attend within them before reaching out to request tickets.* Our tenderly held realm - [Psychosexual Solidarity Clinic](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/events/event/sex-coach-lgbtq-solidarity-clinic-3/) - This is a monthly clinic for folks on the LGBTQ+ spectrum who are holding questions or facing challenges around love, relationships, sex, and/or gender, and who feel drawn to work with me, but cannot afford to pay for regular sessions. These sessions can be conducted over Zoom or by phone. They last for 50 minutes, - [Psychosexual Solidarity Clinic](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/events/event/sex-coach-lgbtq-solidarity-clinic-2/) - This is a monthly clinic for folks on the LGBTQ+ spectrum who are holding questions or facing challenges around love, relationships, sex, and/or gender, and who feel drawn to work with me, but cannot afford to pay for regular sessions. These sessions can be conducted over Zoom or by phone. They last for 50 minutes, - [Psychosexual Solidarity Clinic](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/events/event/sex-coach-lgbtq-solidarity-clinic/) - This is a monthly clinic for folks on the LGBTQ+ spectrum who are holding questions or facing challenges around love, relationships, sex, and/or gender, and who feel drawn to work with me, but cannot afford to pay for regular sessions. These sessions can be conducted over Zoom or by phone. They last for 50 minutes, - [Koinonia – Intimacy, Community, Communion *SOLD OUT*](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/events/event/koinonia-intimacy-community-communion/) - The ritual revels of Koinonia return on Saturday the 4th of November to kindle inner fires and spark shared desires to keep you warm through the winter! ## Testimonials - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/1643/) - Over a series of sessions Rowan enabled me to explore sexual orientation and identity along with it's spiritual and psychic aspects. Rowan brings radical acceptance and kindness to their work, coupled with deep insight and an intuitive grasp of where you are coming from. I was really impressed by the open, deeply informed approach and - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/1641/) - What I appreciate about Rowan is that I really feel centred in the space. It's like having a very kind, loving, and deep mirror held up to me that lets me see new aspects of myself. Everything they ask, every journey they help me to take, is led by what's already present in me. It's - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/1642/) - Each session starts with breathing together, which I experience as an excellent way to get in touch with my feelings and really be there during the session. Rowan first helped me through the process of grieving the end of a relationship. I found their advice on rituals, and on how to integrate rituals in my - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/1217/) - A deeply stimulating weekend, challenging in all the best ways, with significant impact on the areas of my life that I attended in hope of shifting. Some of the activities and interactions we were guided through together were so incredibly simple and yet deeply powerful – leading me to see my own contours and challenges - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/1219/) - The facilitation team held the space fantastically well – especially given the potent energies we unleashed, both the delectable and the dark – just as I felt sure that they would after my experiences at Koinonia. And the other participants too were a rare delight – brave, diverse and warmly supportive. All in all, a - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/1216/) - A deep journey into the radical possibilities of self-devotion and permission for bliss! - J, Radical Self Love Participant - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/172/) - Wow! An absolutely beautifully rich experience touching the essence of the divine within and without in the amazingly held space that Rowan offers. Breathwork, movement, sharing and the most loving tender conscious touch. This is what weekends are made for! - S, Making Love with God Participant - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/171/) - Making Love with God is an impeccably held space where I found only love, compassion, support, honesty and playfulness. It's a place to dive deeper into the richness that makes sex magical and sacred. And it is. I felt supported, loved, and cared for. - O, Making Love with God Participant - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/93/) - I felt completely at ease within the space, as if I had found a nest of comfort, acceptance and exploration, where I learned about myself, the universe, tantric principles, practices and feelings - and where I was free to explore the merging and combining of sex, love, magic, spirituality and divinity. It was an incredible - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/92/) - This was my first real foray into tantra, and I didn't really know what to expect. Rowan had made the space so welcoming, and so comfortable that I almost forgot my nerves straight away. I felt totally comfortable with being aware of my boundaries and preconceptions and I was able to be truthful to them - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/173/) - As my first of "this sort of thing" it has been a very valuable, welcoming experience. Release, forgiveness, sharing, opportunity, caring, holding... It all played out wonderfully. It was precisely what I needed. I feel better than I have in several years. - G, Making Love with God Participant - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/175/) - I am still floating on my magic carpet following the weekend. Such beauty and depth courageously explored and openly exchanged. Thank you Rowan for the creation of this most wondrous gift! - N, Making Love with God Participant - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/262/) - This weekend was truly amazing. My heart will never be the same. I met God for the first time in my life and her love is beautiful. - M, Making Love with God Participant - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/276/) - I really feel that you managed to create and hold an environment that was queer-friendly. A lot of events that I have been to have claimed to be inclusive but at best have been "not-exclusive" as it were. Happily, you avoided such an atmosphere. In the space, I truly felt welcome and invited to be - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/277/) - With regards to my disability, I don't think anything more could have been done to make me feel more included and cared for. Rowan's tendency towards doing rather than saying and the general atmosphere they and their team created made me feel as cozy and comfy as could be. I did not feel anywhere near - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/364/) - Rowan has an extraordinary ability to create a space that invites each participant to bring all of themselves - and welcomes that. The weekend offered an invitation to journey to the self, to connect first with self and then with others. The highlight for me was the feeling of being held. Wow! Just so gorgeous! - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/365/) - It's rare in my life to have done such deep, transformative work for an entire weekend. I know I've really gone to my darkest places and found a safe and loving way to bring them to the surface. I felt 100% supported throughout and that I could ask for whatever I needed. I'm left with - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/366/) - Thank you for teaching me about surrender; it's good to know that sometimes we can surrender rather than continue to strive. I experienced a beautiful transformation that opened my eyes to the real possibility in my life. - B, Making Love with God Participant - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/367/) - This workshop goes deep within and gives a space to connect with what really lies inside. The activities are varied and insightful. Rowan and their team facilitate a space that is nurturing and supportive throughout the journey. I thoroughly recommend their courses and workshops for personal development, self fulfilment and adventure into the unknown! I - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/786/) - An enlightening, nurturing, and well-supported weekend. I was able to dive into previously neglected parts of myself, and learned valuable techniques to give them the love and attention they deserve. The doors have opened. And getting to practice the breath & energy orgasm every day was divine! - M, Making Love with Self Participant - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/801/) - Make Love with Self was a very empowering experience for me, the experience of taking the first steps towards reclaiming my sexuality from patriarchy... Since coming home, I have been writing a song inspired by all the self knowledge and joy the weekend brought me. - J, Making Love with Self participant - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/527/) - Dear Rowan - Thank you so much for your incredible focus, presence, love, support and listening over the last couple of months. I have thoroughly enjoyed our sessions. It seems a little weird to say “enjoyed” through the sobbing, processing, expressing and deep heartfelt moving through some very painful stuff. Yet, that is the word - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/526/) - Rowan – Words are not going to be enough to express the gratitude I feel for the help you have given me during my counseling sessions with you. Your therapeutic approach has been the first facilitation I have experienced that has helped me implement concrete external improvements in my life – as well as what - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/528/) - Dear Rowan - You have already helped me in ways I could never have imagined. I’ve experienced different therapies in the past and they have always focused on fixing me, rather than allowing me to listen to myself and begin to see who I truly am. You aren’t just with me during our sessions, but - [](https://makinglovewithgod.co.uk/testimonials/174/) - I rediscovered my sexual self after 10 years of saying farewell to it. I have re-owned my creative, sexual power, and I feel incredible. I felt so completely held and honoured as I went through my process. I have experienced a profoundly deep, loving and honouring time. 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