Koinonia – Intimacy, Community, Communion *SOLD OUT*
Mar 7 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Koinonia - Intimacy, Community, Communion *SOLD OUT*

The ritual revels of Koinonia return with the spring, inciting an intimate revolution of intentional pleasure and play.

Our tenderly held realm of deviance and delectation will once again be shaped around the four elements, as follows:

– Air is the dance floor, encouraging ecstatic embodiment throughout the evening
– Water is a tender temple of soothing sensuality, inviting rest, cuddle puddles, and massage
– Fire holds the play space, enticing you deeper into the infinite possibilities of pleasure and pain
– Earth holds the food quarter, providing tasty home-cooked treats, and a space to converse and connect

At Koinonia, permission, rather than performance, is the order of the night, and you are welcome to indulge in as much or as little of each element as you feel drawn to, following the flow of your desire moment to moment.

Weaving together magical ritual, safer sex protocol, and a skilled team of facilitators, Koinonia is so much more than a sex party – embracing every facet of the self, sowing the seeds of community, and opening a doorway into ecstasy.

Koinonia welcomes and celebrates participants of all genders and orientations.


The event will take place in a decadent dungeon venue in East London. Doors will open at 5:30, and the Opening Circle will begin at 6:00pm, at which point the doors will shut. The Closing Circle will be at around 11:00pm.

The following tickets are available for purchase:
10 x £50 per ticket
30 x £40 per ticket
10 x £25 per ticket (only available to returning visitors, and particularly aimed at those who would feel excluded from the event by the higher ticket prices)
When deciding which ticket bracket to choose from, please be mindful that this is an event that seeks to foster community pleasure as a force for change in minds, hearts, and our world. Choose a price bracket that balances what is sustainable for you with what is supportive for the collective.
If you’re booking for the first time, please tell us a little about how you found the event, and something about yourself and your prior experience of sex-positive and queer-friendly spaces.

You can book your ticket(s) by contacting
Booking deadline is the 5th of March – please be aware we often sell out before the deadline. There will be no tickets available on the door.

Please note; the venue for this event has some accessibility issues – specifically, a narrow staircase connecting the two floors. We’re currently searching for a more accessible venue for these events.

Igniting Intimacy: An Intimate Book Launch at Sh! @ Sh! Women's Erotic Emporium
Mar 20 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Igniting Intimacy: An Intimate Book Launch at Sh! @ Sh! Women's Erotic Emporium

You are invited to an intimate and interactive evening at Sh! Women’s Erotic Emporium, celebrating the recent release of Igniting Intimacy – Sex Magic Rituals for Radical Living and Loving.

This uniquely accessible sex magic playbook opens a doorway into radical relationship with yourself, your beloveds, our planet, and life itself. It offers fresh inspiration on topics such as self-love, conscious communication, and sacred sex – as well as practices and rituals for erotic shapeshifting, ecosexuality, ecstatic breathwork, and so much more. Igniting Intimacy is a “kindly and non-judgemental” manual for pleasure pioneers hoping to change themselves and the world one orgasm at a time.

The evening will combine cosying up and being read to by the author; Rowan Bombadil, as well as connecting with yourself and others through exercises from the book. All exercises will be clothed, and consent will be encouraged.

Afterwards you will have a chance to ask questions over tea and cupcakes, browse our beautiful shop and take advantage of the in-store discount – and of course pick up your own signed copy of Igniting Intimacy.

All genders and orientations welcome.

Praise for Igniting Intimacy:

“Rowan’s book is full of love and generosity. I feel as if they are sitting next to me, holding my hand, sharing with me from their vast storehouse of knowledge and experience.” – Betty Martin, creator of The Wheel of Consent

“This book is for you, whoever you are. The language is inclusive and the content inviting and inspiring. You’ll learn new ways to relate with yourself, beloveds, friends, family, and the world. You’ll get to discover and define your own personal meaning and style of intimacy, not only with people, but also with the planet and with divinity. And… you’ll reap the boundless benefits of queering love, sex, ritual, and of course, magic.” – Barbara Carrellas, Author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century

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