Are you looking for a way to move beyond fear, shame, or trauma around your sexuality, and find self-acceptance and erotic empowerment?
Are you searching for creative and consensual ways to give voice to your sexual desires?
Are you wondering how to chart a course beyond binary gender models or “vanilla” sex?
Are you longing to enter into radical new relationship and creative intimacy with yourself and/or your partner(s)?
Are you ready to discover, embrace, and celebrate your erotic self?
If any of the above ring true for you, and you are looking for a safe and welcoming space from which to address the difficult questions about love, sex, intimacy, and/or gender, psychosexual coaching may be for you.
I’m Rowan, the founder of Making Love with God, and in my capacity as a psychosexual coach, I take pleasure in empowering my clients to:
- Clarify and communicate their boundaries, their needs, and their desires
- Develop strategies for radical self-acceptance and ethical self-care
- Discover new possibilities for intimacy and sex, and navigate different stages of love and life in creative and pleasure-giving ways
- Address issues around identity – whether in terms of sexuality or gender – and find safe and fulfilling ways to embody and express themselves
- And to reconnect – to their own sexual and creative energy, to partners and loved ones, and, if they so wish, to an experience of unconditional and sex-positive divine love
My work takes the form of talk therapy, and uses breath, visualisation, and embodiment techniques to promote integration, pleasure expansion, and peace. I bring warmth, humour, and presence to my sessions, and my unique coaching style is influenced by years of experience in conscious sexuality, spiritual counselling, and the gifts of the breath.
Ultimately, what I do comes down to helping you find the permission to be yourself – ecstatically.
In the past, I have supported clients to reconnect with their sexuality; explore and express their gender identity; change their communication and relating styles; and navigate new kinds of sex and relationships with self-care, consent, and creativity. I have also accompanied clients through divorce, bereavement, changes in work and circumstances, and other big life transitions. Whatever you’re going through is welcome in the space between us.
Coaching sessions can be conducted online, or in person in Brighton. I operate on a busy schedule, and coach a limited number of people at a time, so I encourage you to begin the booking process now if you think I might be the practitioner for you.
I recommend a minimum of three coaching sessions to kick-start the process of reconnecting with your body, your desire, and your truth. I usually see clients on a fortnightly basis, and I tend to assign homeplay as a way for the work to continue between sessions. Some clients choose to work with me longer term, unravelling outdated patterns, addressing old wounds, and integrating permission and pleasure into every facet of their lives. Ultimately, the journey of erotic discovery is a lifelong one, and one it is my delight to support you on for as long as feels appropriate to us both.
All genders, orientations, relationship configurations, bodies, backgrounds, and faiths are welcome.
Previous Clients Say…
I have thoroughly enjoyed our sessions. It seems a little weird to say “enjoyed” through the sobbing, processing, expressing and deep heartfelt moving through some very painful stuff. Yet, that is the word I would use to describe this wonderfully gentle yet powerful holding of the session that you so seamlessly offer. You have the ability to marry deep wisdom and intuition with practical grounding help and inspirations to help me move through and challenge myself in my life, as I ease into a more flowing way of experiencing, expressing and relating. I feel like I have been hugged with love into myself. - E, Coaching Client
I’ve experienced different therapies in the past and they have always focused on fixing me, rather than allowing me to listen to myself and begin to see who I truly am. You aren’t just with me during our sessions, but send me away with something to work on – whether that’s reading a book, making art, going on a journey, or performing a ritual. I haven’t been given the space to create since I was a child. Sometimes our sessions challenge me, because of the rawness that comes with discovering your Self, but I am already witnessing the shift in my perception of the world. Or perhaps, simply remembering a world I’ve experienced before.
Thank you. I am so looking forward to delving deeper within whilst learning to make more connections, more authentic connections, with others, with The Other. - O, Coaching Client
Your therapeutic approach has been the first facilitation I have experienced that has helped me implement concrete external improvements in my life – as well as what is the normally expected internal psychological development. Your insightful witnessing and holistic technique has been like a breath of fresh air – literally – that has allowed me to straighten the knotted tangles of thoughts that have held me back. The way you have helped me work with a heightened body consciousness has been amazing and allowed me to clear out old locked-in, and disruptive, thought patterns. I would recommend your therapeutic work to anyone. - C, Coaching Client